Hot take: My wife's envelope system at Target actually saved us $200 last month

I was always the guy saying cash envelopes were outdated and my credit card points were better. Then she dragged me to Target in Phoenix last month and we each had $60 in an envelope for groceries and household stuff. I had to put back a $25 candle and a bag of snacks because the cash was gone and it felt terrible but the end of the month we had a real surplus for the first time in a year. So which side is right: tracking every dollar you spend or just putting a hard limit on categories and ignoring the rest?

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torres.drew27d ago

Man that's a rough feeling right there, having to put back a candle you really wanted because you literally cannot pay for it. I've been there with a bag of jalapeno kettle chips and it still stings a little. But @river182 you nailed it, the friction at the register is the whole secret. My girlfriend does the same thing with cash for groceries and I gotta admit I'm a convert now, even though I still feel dumb holding actual money like it's 1998. The points thing is smart too, I could use that to justify my weird hobby of buying fancy hot sauce online without feeling guilty. Bottom line is the envelope method wins for the stuff you always overspend on, just don't tell my buddies I said that.

river18227d ago

And your wife basically proved that the envelope method forces you to face scarcity right there in the aisle, which no app or credit card statement can ever replicate because guilt is a lot less immediate than running out of actual cash. The real power move is combining her system with your points game, like using the envelope for the essentials and then funneling every non-grocery purchase through a card that you pay off immediately (so you still get the rewards without the overspend). That little bit of friction at the register is what most people are missing when they argue one side is better than the other, because a hard limit changes your buying behavior in a way that tracking alone just doesn't.