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My neighbor said my tomato plants looked 'sad and thirsty' and I got defensive, but she was right.
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sanchez.mia5mo ago
I used to get so mad too... but she saved my tomatoes.
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paige8705mo ago
My neighbor Linda told me my basil looked wilted last summer. I got so mad for a whole hour before I actually looked at it. Honestly, it was bone dry and turning brown. It's so hard to hear that kind of stuff even when it's true. Tbh I've learned to just say thanks and go check for myself. Getting defensive just stops you from fixing the actual problem.
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sarahsullivan5mo ago
Why is it so hard to take advice about stuff we care about? I read this thing about how our brains treat criticism of our projects like a physical threat, it's wild. Makes you just want to argue instead of listen. Your method is smart, just saying thanks buys you time to get over the sting and actually see what's going on. It turns a fight into useful info.
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