Posted by Lorelei on September 30, 2008 at 09:09:29:
In Reply to: Tips for getting started posted by Experienced on September 29, 2008 at 02:19:48:
Hi Spencer, I've always been interested in bondage but even I didn't want a gag when I started out. I don't think gags should be a part of starter play. Unless you're doing gags with no bondage at all, lol
She should feel like you want her to talk about how she's doing, at the beginning. Adding a gag too soon, might subconsciously give her the worry that you don't really care to have her tell you... that wouldn't be good...
--LorLor