Posted by Experienced on September 29, 2008 at 02:19:48:
In Reply to: How to get my girl friend into bondage? posted by Spencer on September 28, 2008 at 14:49:38:
Start small. Don't come marching into the room bristling with rolls of duct tape, gagging fabrics, three bundles of sailor's rope, and the announcement that you're going to bind and gag her as no woman has ever been bound and gagged before and that all the forces of hell could not stop you. That won't work. In fact, you might get yourself in trouble if she calls the police--or the psychiatric ward at the nearest hospital.
Instead, consider something like the following. While rolling on top of her on a sofa or bed, you might "innocently" pull a silken scarf or clean handkerchief out of your back pocket and press it over her mouth. When her eyes pop open in perplexity and surprise, pull the cloth away instantly and say something like, "Wow! You wouldn't believe how sexy you looked when I did that" or "Can I see your eyes like that again? They were amazingly beautiful."
If she continues to stare up at you puzzled, shocked and alarmed, just tell her you think those Muslims are on to something, what with the head scarves, chadors, burkas, and all.
Feeling braver---and if you judge that she can absorb this revelation without dumping you---you might even mention a "kooky" 1950s' film you saw as a kid with Linda Stirling and how, since then, you've always wanted to see a woman look as exciting as Linda did in that scene where she got tied up with a scarf wrapped around her mouth.
"You're crazy," your girlfriend might say.
"Crazy for YOU," you might reply and quickly move on to another topic.
But you'll have planted an idea. In a loving, sexually playful context, women generally like doing whatever turns their boyfriends on. Why shouldn't they? Sex ought to be fun.
So give the idea a few days to germinate. Next time you see her, don't be surprised if she's the one who asks, "Would like to see me with a gag on?" She'll have seen that instead of competing against Linda Stirling, her best strategy is to BECOME Linda Stirling. You take it from there.
But, again, start small. If she has any brains at all, she'll catch on. And if she has no brains, or no desire to please you, then keep looking for a woman who does. You'll find her, my friend. Perseverence pays off. Never give up.